The words you use do say a lot. Like maybe you are from a different culture where none of the above matters. Maybe you were educated during a time when the previous words were the standard and you haven't had access to the new politically correct terminology. Some of the new terminology you use is no longer new, but old. Consider that. Perhaps you aren't educated at all, to no fault of your own. Perhaps you come from difficult circumstances where you didn't have time or weren't even allowed to consider such things. The words you use say a lot. It would be best not judge.